Yesterday I got some feedback, some of it on the forum and some of it in my private email (shame on you for that abuse - but anyway) - that I'm not running the forum correctly. Apparently we are over-moderated and there is no banter - last nights exchange seems to prove that is not the case - but clearly we're not making everyone happy.So - I'm asking the community what they want - it's a forum after all, which is about the people rather than the site.If you want me to moderate 'tough', banning people, closing threads and controlling the content - then let me know.Otherwise I'm going to continue as I am - trying not to let things get aggressive, but letting debates happen. One thing is for sure - I'm not going to take the personal abuse sent to me on email last night. The forum is NOT THAT precious to me, I love it being here - but I'm not going to be abused for it. As I keep saying, it is only the internet after all.So - let's hear your feedback - APART from the technical issues - what can I do to keep the forum successful, or what should I change now to ensure we grow.